Support from a Registered Psychotherapist in Burlington, ON and online across Ontario

Individual Therapy for People-Pleasing and Anxiety

Helping you build greater self-trust, emotional ease, and more fulfilling relationships.


Life may look okay from the outside, but inside you're carrying a lot.

It's easy to lose sight of how much energy goes into thinking about everyone else until it begins to affect the way you experience yourself, your relationships, and your everyday life.

Maybe You’ve Been Noticing…

  • You replay conversations long after they've ended

  • You spend a lot of time thinking about how you're coming across or worrying about disappointing people

  • You struggle to trust your decisions without reassurance

  • You're often focused on what everyone else needs while feeling less certain about what you need yourself

  • You feel anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally exhausted

  • You're beginning to realize the way you've been coping isn't working like it used to

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A woman with curly hair and glasses standing outdoors at sunset, wearing a red and white patterned dress.

Why Does This Happen?

Many of the people I work with have spent years paying close attention to the needs, expectations, and reactions of the people around them.

These patterns often develop for good reasons. At some point, being adaptable, thoughtful, easy-going, or emotionally aware may have helped you maintain connection, avoid conflict, or feel accepted.

The challenge is that constantly monitoring yourself around others can eventually leave you feeling anxious, stuck in self-doubt, and disconnected from yourself.

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Close-up of a person's face with glasses and long hair illuminated by warm sunlight, sitting by a window with blurred background.

How Therapy Can Help

Therapy isn't about becoming less caring, thoughtful, or adaptable.

It's about learning how to stay connected to yourself while remaining connected to the people around you.

Together, we'll explore the experiences and relationship patterns that have shaped you, make sense of what is no longer serving you, and work toward greater self-trust, emotional ease, and more fulfilling relationships.

Laura Mak, Registered Psychotherapist, in a bright therapy office in Burlington, Ontario.

What It’s Like to Work With Me

Therapy with me is collaborative, thoughtful, and conversational. I'll listen carefully, ask meaningful questions, share what I'm noticing, and gently challenge you when it feels helpful.

Sessions often begin with what's most present for you that day. From there, we'll slow things down together, becoming curious about your thoughts, emotions, relationships, and the ways your body responds. As those different pieces come together, we can begin to notice patterns that may have been difficult to see before. Rather than judging those patterns, we'll approach them with curiosity and compassion, helping you better understand yourself and what may no longer fit for you.

The goal isn't to become a different person. It's to better understand yourself so you can respond to life's challenges in ways that feel more intentional, grounded, and aligned with the life you want.

Ready to Begin?

If you have a sense that something needs to change, that's enough.